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Can my ex cancel my visa?

By Sony Sadaf Haroon, Principal solicitor. 25 October 2026, 5 min read

Many people on a spouse or partner visa worry that their husband, wife, or partner can "cancel" their visa. Sometimes a partner says it as a threat during an argument. This guide explains what a former partner can and cannot do, what the Home Office does, and what you can do to protect your position.

The short answer

Your former partner cannot cancel your visa. Only the Home Office can.

What your former partner can do is tell the Home Office that your relationship has ended. Because a spouse visa depends on the relationship, the Home Office may then decide to cancel it. This is often called withdrawing sponsorship, or curtailment.

If you are still together and your partner is using threats about your visa to control you, that can be a form of domestic abuse. Help is available, and there are immigration routes for people in this position. See our guide on settlement for victims of domestic abuse.

What the sponsor can do

Your partner, the person who sponsored your visa, can:

  • tell the Home Office online or by post that you have separated or divorced
  • ask the Home Office to keep their information private, so you are not told they were in contact
  • give consent for their information to be shared with you

GOV.UK says that people whose partner's visa depends on them usually must tell the Home Office about a separation. So a sponsor who reports the end of a relationship is often doing what the guidance asks.

What the sponsor cannot do

Your former partner cannot:

  • cancel or "take back" your visa
  • make the Home Office reach a particular decision
  • see the Home Office's decision about you, unless you agree
  • end your permission by keeping your passport, your old biometric residence permit, or other documents

Most people's immigration status is now held as an eVisa, a digital record linked to your UK Visas and Immigration (UKVI) account. Make sure you control your own UKVI account. If your former partner knows your login details, change them.

What the Home Office does

When the Home Office is told a relationship has broken down, its caseworkers must consider cancelling the visa. They should not cancel it automatically. The decision is discretionary, so the caseworker should look at your situation, including any sign of domestic abuse.

If the Home Office decides to cancel, it will usually:

  • send you a written decision, often called a cancellation or curtailment notice
  • shorten your visa so that you have 60 days left, if you had more than 60 days remaining
  • leave your visa as it is if you already had 60 days or less left

Sometimes the Home Office cancels with immediate effect, for example where it believes the marriage was a sham. In exceptional cases, such as pregnancy or serious illness, it can leave you with longer than 60 days. The Home Office cannot use cancellation to make your visa last longer than its original end date.

You can read the Home Office's own guidance on cancellation and curtailment of permission. Look for the section on relationship breakdown.

What the decision means for you

A cancellation decision does not mean you must leave straight away. It gives you a new date by which you must either have made a fresh application or left the UK.

There is usually no appeal against the cancellation itself. Your main tool is a new application on a route you qualify for. If you apply before your permission ends, you can usually stay lawfully in the UK while it is decided.

If you do nothing and your permission runs out, you will be in the UK without lawful status. That can affect your right to work and rent a home, and it can count against you in future visa applications.

What you can do

If your relationship has ended, or your partner says they will contact the Home Office:

  1. Keep your documents safe. Keep copies of your passport, visa decisions, marriage certificate, and any letters from the Home Office.
  2. Check your UKVI account and make sure the contact details are yours. Decisions may be sent by email.
  3. Think about whether you should tell the Home Office yourself. GOV.UK says you usually must tell them if your visa depends on your relationship.
  4. Look at your options for staying. These may include settlement as a victim of domestic abuse, a visa as the parent of a child in the UK, a private life visa, or a work visa. Our guide on divorce or separation on a spouse visa covers these.
  5. Collect evidence early: your children's school and medical records, proof of your contact with them, and anything that shows abuse, such as police reports, medical notes, or letters from support services.
  6. Apply in time. If you get a cancellation decision, note the new expiry date and plan to apply well before it.

If you are still together and your partner has wrongly told the Home Office you have separated, contact the Home Office with evidence that you live together, such as joint bills, tenancy documents, and photos. Get advice quickly.

If you are being abused

Threats about your visa, money, or children can be part of a pattern of control. You do not have to put up with it to keep your immigration status. If you are in danger, call 999. If you cannot speak, press 55 when asked. The National Domestic Abuse Helpline is free and open 24 hours on 0808 2000 247.

When to get advice

Get advice as soon as you receive a letter from the Home Office, or if your partner says they have contacted it. Time limits are short, and the right next step depends on your family, your history in the UK, and whether there has been abuse. We can help you understand where you stand. You can book a call with us.

Get advice on your situation

This guide is general information, not legal advice. How the rules apply depends on your circumstances, so please don't rely on this guide alone. Speak to a solicitor before you make a decision or send an application.

Your first 15-minute call is free, confidential, and with no obligation.

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Frequently asked questions

Can my husband or wife cancel my visa?

No. Only the Home Office can cancel a visa. Your former partner can tell the Home Office that you have separated, and the Home Office will then decide what to do.

Will the Home Office tell me if my ex has contacted them?

Not necessarily. If your former partner asks for their information to be kept private, the Home Office will not tell you they were in touch. You will still receive any decision about your own visa.

What if my ex tells the Home Office we have separated when we have not?

The Home Office should look at the evidence before it decides. If you are still together, tell the Home Office and send evidence. Get advice quickly if you receive a cancellation decision.

How long do I have after my visa is cancelled?

Usually 60 days, if you had more than that left. Your decision letter will give the new expiry date. Use the time to apply for another visa or plan to leave.

Can my ex take my visa away by keeping my passport or documents?

No. Most people now have an eVisa, which is held online in your UKVI account. Holding on to your passport does not cancel your permission, though you should report a lost or withheld passport and keep your account details private.

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